Tuesday, April 16, 2013

N is for Negligee

I get a lot - and I mean a lot - of questions about lingerie. Like, whether you should wear a teddy to bed, or a leather body suit. Really?

Personally, I'm partial to leather. This once, after a little too much whiskey, I ordered something pink and frilly from Victoria Secret... er, never mind.

Anyway, I've never seen much purpose in lingerie (it just ends up on the floor anyway), but I say, go hard. Unless, of course, you have the same problem as "Mindy" who writes:

"I bought a sexy negligee. It didn't do anything for my husband. He told me he's just not into lingerie. Now what?"
Seems pretty straight forward to me. Don't wear it.

Yeah, yeah, lingerie makes you feel sexy, what about your needs, blah blah blah. Bloody hell, you can't force what isn't there. If you wearing a negligee doesn't turn your partner's crank, get over it. Doesn't mean you can't throw it on, if it's that bloody important to you. But don't turn it into a dramatic sob story about how he doesn't love you, doesn't think you're sexy, on and on and on. He does. You are. He's just not that into lingerie. Don't read it into it.

Unless he's gay. But then, that's a whole other question.

Yeah, I know, love bites. 


- Jagger

5 comments:

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  3. Negligees are fun !! It's just a shame that it always ends up on the floor (and sometimes with a tear !!)

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  4. Great blog! New follower here. I'm stopping by from the "A to Z" challenge and I look forward to visiting again.

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