I know they say all is fair in love and war, but why the bloody hell does there have to be so much drama?
I'd bet a bottle of JD "Charlie" is still in high school, though I've seen 50-year-olds play these same games:
"My girlfriend wrote a blog post to tell me what a dick I am, but didn't SAY the post was about me. Is that passive aggressive?"
But you're no better, Romeo.
Look, I'm no expert at communication, but both of you need to put on your big girl panties. Got something to say? Be aggressive and own it (or point the finger of blame)...or be passive and move on. Don't do both. That's lame.
And, airing your relationship drama on the internet? It's not your personal diary, and I have to assume she's smart enough to know that. She wrote it because she wants you (and your friends, her friends, etc) to read it - mostly because she doesn't have the parts to tell you to your face. Don't be too hard on her though, your cojones aren't exactly filling out your jock strap.
In your email, you admit your girlfriend reads this blog - which is why you asked me instead of your locker buddies.
I know, love bites.