Finally, a question I can really sink my teeth into.
"Commitment Phoebe" asks
"I'm in a relationship with a great guy, but I'm not ready to settle down. Am I being silly?"
Hell no! Buy yourself a hero cookie for bypassing those rose-colored glasses. Sure he's Mr. Wonderful right now, but what happens when you move in together and he starts leaving the toilet seat up, drinking all your Jack Daniels, or worse, turning your dog into a drooling, treat-seeking traitor?
Settling, and settling down - two BIG relationship no-no's as far as I'm concerned. If the sex is good and you're satisfied, why change anything? But if he's the one already dreaming in white picket fences and mini-vans, I'd consider kicking this Mr.Desperate to the curb before things get out of hand.
I know, love bites.